How does it feel when you can trust no one...That one by one you see the faces of people you thought you knew turn to a different face? How is it when you sit in the cafeteria with your "friends" but have this feeling they are betraying you. Ha! I have this thing where I have one "best friend" then off to the next one.. X-ing people out of the list. The main problem is always 2 its a little sip of Haterade and a pinch of gossip. Your friend or best friend is who you confide in,hang with, and who knows you (strengths and weaknesses). But...a friend can also be your greatest enemy. Im not saying hate everyone,but be careful in who you confide in, cause when their face turns they are just gunna stab your back. The worst enemies are your turned friends, because you loved them and it hurts you most. I guess I have this disease where I affect my friends to have tongues of fire just coming to burn me back. How do you defend yourself if one by one they fade away, Do you stay hard or do you kiss up? Well my solution is THE TRUTH, Forgive those who are to be forgiven and Keep Away from Those who say DANGER!!! But hey what happens when your haters who kiss up to you and everyone and everyone loves em? there is no possible way to be straight forward with em..oh no Just Smile and wave is what i say. Dont say anything bad about them or ANYONE and whatever theyy say will come back and bite them. One by one you see them fall, just be pacient. Now me Im an ordinary girl..I love to sing,shy to dance at times, Music is my life,FB is my main stream, im a cheerleader,love sports,girlscouts,church girl,family,friends, the works..Been having recently constant battles with "friends". But you know the funny thing none of them can come straight too my face and tell me I DONT LIKE YOU! but everyone turns to texting and FB but what the hell lol Actually half of my "friends" I just hear about all the trash they talk about me and the the next day its kissing my butt. Oh well we all have HATERS, but whats the reason if you did nothing? Are you the problem? And you dont want it any more..whats the solution? Well what I have learned most of the time if your on a pedastal, people always wanna see you fall. One little slip or mistake ha People will eat you alive! If your innocent, people may call you different things but its because you Stand By Your Rules and are Happy. Look Innocent people are judged all the time, the main example is Jesus Christ! And in Jesus's words if the World Comes Down Hating You well remember the World has hated me first. If you see a repeated issue though that you lose friends then its probably your motive or attitude, but only change if its an improvement for you and the people you TRULY LOVE..not for the change for people you hate to love. And if you want all the fussing to stop..either come straight forward with eachother..try again or be enemies but have RESPECT! Respect as not trashing eachother, tell them you don't want them to even recognize your existense. Because believe me once your in people's mouth they'll spit on your name! How do you know if your friend or aquaintances are as fake as barbie well take the steps: Talk to Them, see their views and if they trash others;Observe who they hang with; Lastly Listen because What Comes Around Goes Around. Its Just using your senses,but sometimes your heart jumps forward before your brain. There's different situations:You've known them all your life,You just met them fresh new start,Comes AcrossSuper Nice Person to Everyone, and i bet plenty of more. And as I said It hurts, but look for Quality: Someone who connects with,Helps OR fixes your Faults,Accepts You,Likes Your Family,Trusting,Loyalty,UnSelfish,Not Dramatic,Dependable,Defendable! You Probably cant find all the qualities but hey who is perfect. Just find someone who is there for you!
This is But the beginning....To Be Continued
-It's better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for who you are not.-Unknown
-False friendship, like the ivy, decays and ruins the walls it embraces; but true friendship gives new life and animation to the object it supports.-Richard Burton
-By the end of my life I would rather have one friend then 5 aquaintaces because that's one friend that truly stuck by me TILL the end.- ME:D
